Jen Aly & James Yunker
This is Jen, and I know that relationship is no small topic. I’ve seen men and women who have success in every other aspect of life and are at a loss with how to turn their love life around. An unsatisfying relationship or love life can affect every area of your life and be a stumbling block to living and sharing your full potential.
If a relationship seems beyond your understanding, and even scary, you are not alone.
But how do you get from where you are to where you want to be in relationship?
If you’re like us, you haven’t had many models of the kind of relationship you want to create. You have been repeating what seem like the same patterns and have fears of ending up like your parents or friends whose relationships bit the dust.
I’ve been there and it’s totally frustrating!
In my past relationships I would either lose myself or I’d become a control freak. I’d blame the guy for not being ‘good enough’ in some way or I’d say, “I need more space” so that I could get myself back again.
I eventually became so sick of living these patterns in my relationships that I declared I was done with the dysfunction and drama and was ready for something different.
Do any of the scenarios below sound familiar?
As I looked at what I wanted, I realized I was grieving Happily Ever After. When I let go of the idea of Happily Ever After and realized I wanted Happily Ever Now, I became free of being run by unconscious patterns.
Although I had let go of “Happily Ever After,” I had NO IDEA how to be “Happily Ever Now” in relationship. At the beginning of my relationship with James my old patterns reared their ugly head and there was drama. I did not want to relive the same old story again.This time, instead of feeding those patterns, I immediately got help. I hired a relationship coach that supported me to move through my dramatic patterns instead of feeding them.
I learned to know the difference between real issues and my fears or drama. This helped me to uproot the things that used to capsize the relationship so that I could truly show up for myself and the relationship.
What is different this time? I realized I had nothing to lose and decided to be all and more of me in relationship. I chose someone I am naturally authentic with who likes me for who I am. But, is that enough? No.
Satisfying relationship takes conscious awareness, commitment, and proactive growth!
No one I know has Happily Ever After. That’s the last page of the book, the last screen shot of the movie, and it’s the end of the story. It’s a frozen moment at the climax of the story. That’s Hollywood. What about the rest of their lives? How about some reality please?
I’ve learned that I can use moments of doubt, challenge, and emotional upheaval to create more connection. These are signs that the relationship is going deeper and as it does, old issues that were buried down deep come to the surface to clear out. This makes room for more expansive experiences of love and ecstasy. Sound good?
When you know how to deal with the stuff coming to the surface, it makes the process of expansion a lot easier. In this workshop you will learn tools, practices and skills to support you to move thru times of challenge in relationship and come out the other side more deeply connected.
We offer this workshop as a way to share some of the “how to” that helps us ride the roller coaster adventure of conscious relationship.
How would you like to experience a relationship that gets better and better through every joy and every challenge? The idea of wanting our relationship to be like it was when we first started dating is not appealing because it is now so much more alive, deep, and passionate than ever before.
This is not a Happily Ever After picture. I’m not saying you’ll be happy all the time. I am saying that it is possible to consciously create your relationship and ride the waves of the ups and downs.
You deserve a relationship beyond your dreams that transcends the elusive myth of Happily Ever After!
Happily Ever Now™
The Adventure of Conscious Relationship 1-Day Workshop
Conscious relationship has no fairy-tale destination. The relationship is continuously changing, growing, and evolving, as each partner does the same. Now for many of you, that's exactly what makes it so darn scary! The ups and downs can be confronting as each of you navigates your own personal upsets and exhilarations.
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-How do successful relationships work?
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-How does each partner get exactly what they need while still staying connected to each other?
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-How can it keep getting better and better?
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-How can you attract one of these amazing relationships?
In this workshop James and I vulnerably share our challenges and learnings from past experiences and our current committed relationship. We have developed tools and techniques born from our relationship experiences so that they are applicable to real life and the ways to bring couples closer together as each individually expands their capacities and contributions in the world.
Our work is an outgrowth, not only from personal experience in (and out) of relationship, but also a culmination of years of personal growth work and receiving expert support, mentoring and training that helps us bring the best of what we’ve learned to you.
Give Us Just 1 Day and We’ll Teach You the Essential Ingredients to Create a Satisfying Relationship for the Rest of Your Life.
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In this workshop you will:
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-Learn to Enjoy the Process of Relationship Building
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-Understand the Strengths of Each Gender and Use Them to Spice Up Your Relationship
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-Learn Simple & Practical Tools to Nurture and Deepen Your Relationship Everyday
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-Discover How to Support Each Other in Creating a Life You Love
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-Learn How to Stay Centered & in Your Power Rather than Lose Yourself or Isolate Yourself in Relationship
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-Communicate in a Way That Forwards Your Relationship and Deepens Connection and Intimacy
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-Identify and Breakthrough Patterns that Have Held You Back from Having or Maintaining the Partnership of Your Dreams
Take these experiences home from the one-day workshop to use in your relationship now or on your next date.
This is your opportunity to embrace the sometimes mysterious and always magical world of conscious relationship. Learn the tools and techniques for developing and maintaining a HEALTHY, HAPPY, AND AMAZING RELATIONSHIP.
We lovingly invite singles and new-ish couples who want to create a fulfilling partnership to attend our one-day workshop.
Because a healthy relationship has made such a huge impact on our lives we are committed to sharing this work. This workshop is worth $297 for the day. And if you consider our years of experience coaching, teaching and facilitating and the healing and tools you will take with you, what we are offering to you is a priceless gift. We will be sharing ways you can continue your growth and learning with us beyond this workshop.
Click the Date Below to Register
If you have any questions or concerns, feel free to email us at info@happilyevernow.com
We expect this workshop to fill & space is limited.
Jen and James are happy to offer an optional addition to your registration to start your experience of stepping into a new paradigm of relationship off on the right foot!
Thanks for reviewing our offerings. If you have read this far, please don’t let this opportunity get away! We have made this as easy as possible for you! There is no obligation for you.
If you have any questions or concerns about our program, we are happy to support you in making a powerful decision for your current or future relationship! Please contact us at 415-887-4208 or info@HappilyEverNow.com.
If you can’t attend any of these dates and you want to stay informed about our upcoming Happily Ever Now workshops, sign-up to receive our monthly eZine. Plus you will receive a free download our “Guide to Creating Your Conscious Relationship Agreements.” This guide will support you in declaring what you want in relationship and having that every day!
With Love,
Jen
P.S. Don’t let your old patterns, resistance or what ever your head might be saying get in the way of your Happily Ever Now. YOU deserve it! Feel the fear, take a breath and choose happiness anyway.
More about Jen & James
Jen Aly is a Holistic Coach & Trainer. She is committed to supporting busy Americans to slow down and live Happily Ever Now rather than living in chaos. Her coaching mentor is "O" Magazine Columnist Martha Beck. Jen’s approach to relationship is influenced by Gay & Kathleen Hendricks, Satyen Raja and Barry & Joyce Vissell. She views relationship as a spiritual practice of continually choosing love, power & surrender. Jen is a recovering Southern Drama Queen/Control Freak who learned & grew from years of relationship dysfunction before she decided to shack up with James. Read Jen's blog at HappilyEverNow.com
James Yunker is a Holistic Health Coach, Body Worker, & Trainer. James is passionate about the inherent intelligence of the human body and how biology influences male/female dynamics. He has taught men's dating workshops and coached men & women in relationship, has studied NVC, David Deida, and taken and assisted The Pleasure Course. James views the body as a powerful tool for being in the moment in relationship. James was a serial non-committalist who is happy to have seen the Light. Amen. Read James' blog at TouchTransformation.com
A letter to Couples and Singles:
Do you want to experience a powerful relationship that is deeply nourishing to every part of you?
Do you want to have a fulfilling relationship without the drama and patterns you experienced in the past?
If you answered “Yes,” you are ready to learn about a powerful workshop that will help you have a satisfying conscious relationship.
